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Why The Right Mom & Dad Friends Matter
We've always heard choose your friends wisely and any of us who remember high school can say how true that statement is; for the people we spent the most time with really have the power to impact our life in big ways. We know our closest friends can influence our attitudes and actions (as a parent and spouse), but their power truly goes beyond that. For many of us parents, being a part of my life also means you're a part of my child's life. So who are the adults and friends we welcome into our homes regularly? When choosing your friends do you seek them only for yourself or are you seeking good people who will help you raise up your child and influence them in the very best ways.
Growing up my parent's closest friends were always like family. We went to stay at their houses regularly, called them our Aunts/Uncles and they never missed a birthday party or big milestone. And they came from all walks of life. Some were police officers, martial arts school owners, some were stay at home parents, some worked at the movie theater, some graduated college and some had not. Their value, wasn't determined by their job title or education status, but that they were men and women who loved us, looked out for us, worked hard and were always kind to others.
So who are the adults and friends in your life? Do these bonds only benefit you or do they also extend to enriching your child's life? No matter how you choose to view your friendships or include them in your families life here are some things your choice in friends teaches your child about good friends.
It Teaches Them To Seek Out Good Character
The quality of an individual and the values and ideals they embody will affect your child much more than their successfulness or status within society. So whether your children are involved in your adult friend's lives or just hear you speak of them make sure to emphasize what really matters. Point out and praise their strengths of character in front of your child. Your child (especially during the early years) wants to be like you and soaks that stuff right up. So teach them to seek friends of exemplary character who push them to be better and do the right thing.
It Teaches Them To Seek Out Dependability
Seek out friends who stand by you and aren't only there out of convenience or for fun. We know life is full of unexpected curveballs so teach your child to seek out friends who are there through thick and thin no matter what. The kind of people you can turn to when life gets hard. And who better to exemplify this than the friend within our spouse or significant other? However, dependability is a two way street. Let them see you prioritize your relationships and consistently follow through with your plans. Dependability is one of those priceless traits in any relationship so teach your child to be dependable and seek it out in others.
It Teaches Them To Seek Wise Council
Our friends and peers can have a strong impact on our attitudes and the important decisions we make. It's important to gather around you a group of people you trust, who share your values and see life through a similar lens as you do. It's also important to have friends who won't pull their punches and are willing to correct and steer you back to the right path if it's required. The world will bombard us with many voices- the voices of ambition, power, wealth, greed, and selfishness. We need to surround ourselves with people who consistently speak the truth. So let your child see you show some emotion and let them see you be open with yourself and your relationships concerning present obstacles. Let them see you weigh those hard decisions. Seeing this process and a bit of vulnerability will teach them to also seek good council and weigh the pros and cons of any big decision.
So there you have it. Your friends are yours, it's true, but they also can have a bigger impact on your growing Little Warrior than you would first suspect. So seek out friends and relationships who lift you up and also teach your child to seek the very best. Happy parenting! Keep being awesome Warrior parents!